Jul 182015
 
"Point Pinos" is one of two of my paintings (along with one of my wife's) hanging in the permanent art collection of the Muscular Dystrophy Association.

“Point Pinos” is one of two of my paintings (along with one of my wife’s) hanging in the permanent art collection of the Muscular Dystrophy Association.

Ten years before this blog began, and several years before the term “blogging” came into general use, IBM had taken my life in a new direction. Besides forcing me to give up a career as a writer and advertising agency owner, it had herded me into a new career as a watercolor artist. Within months of closing the doors to my ad agency, I was opening books on painting techniques, design theory and color harmony. I joined an outdoor painting group, then became a member of the San Diego Watercolor Society – one of the largest groups of its kind in the world – and soon became a board member and eventually president.

This was   my booth at the Hotel Intercontinental in 2003 for The Myositis Association national conference.

This was my booth at the Hotel Intercontinental in 2003 for The Myositis Association national conference.

This new avocation gave me such pleasure and added so much meaning to my life that I had to share the news. I talked to members of our local Myositis Association (TMA) support group and they encouraged me to take my message to the national conference that was coming up in Houston. This was in 2003. The organizers of the conference also encouraged me and gave me a booth where I could display several paintings and hand out literature.

 "Monterey Bay" (15 " x 22 ") will be auctioned  at the 2015 national conference of the myositis Association to raise money for research.

“Monterey Bay” (15 ” x 22 “) will be auctioned at the 2015 national conference of the myositis Association to raise money for research.

Twelve years later, I have once again been approached by TMA to participate in their national conference in Orlando. Of course I cannot travel there, but one of my paintings is making the trip, along with this updated version of my literature (below). The painting will be auctioned with the proceeds going to benefit research into myositis. One session of the conference is about finding purpose in life following disability, so I am very pleased to participate in this small way.

 If you click on this image of the front and back cover it will make it large enough to read.

If you click on this image of the front and back cover it will make it large enough to read.

 This is the inside of the brochure where I tell the story of becoming an artist after being diagnosed with inclusion body myositis.

This is the inside of the brochure where I tell the story of becoming an artist after being diagnosed with inclusion body myositis.

They titled this session “Act II” but if I could be there in person I might add that myositis is not necessarily a two act play. It has been nearly 5 years since I was forced to give up painting due to seriously declining strength in my hands and arms. Of course that led to yet another exciting pursuit – – writing a blog and a book taking advantage of voice recognition technology and electronic publishing. (Which reminds me, my book has been published for nearly a year and a half now and sales have slowed down considerably after beginning with quite a flourish. I didn’t publish the book to make money, in fact I have given away nearly as many as I have sold, but I am curious why it seems to have been forgotten. It was written to help people with myositis, especially those newly diagnosed, because this is not a common illness and coping with it is not a common skill. You don’t even have to pay for the book if you don’t want to because Amazon Kindle owners can read it for free. I’ve included the link below.

Dec 222010
 

Rainbow north of our Rancho Bernardo home.

Rainbow north of our Rancho Bernardo home.

The New Year is often a time for reflection and introspection. So in 2010 I took this opportunity to review the highlights (ho ho) of my journey with inclusion body myositis, along with my wife’s struggle with myotonic dystrophy. This is my second annual update. Sadly, my wife’s struggle ended October 11, 2012.

1985-1995 (pre-diagnosis) stumbling while jogging, golf club flying out of hands, difficulty rising with backpack, jogging speed declining

1996 – diagnosed at UCSD Medical Center

1997 – started using walking sticks to help avoid falls

1998 – purchased scooter with elevating seat for distances more than 100 yards

purchased van with lift in rear for taking scooter along

1999 – fitted for full leg braces (KAFO) and forearm crutches

purchased Jazzy wheelchair with elevating seat

had condo modified with ramps at curb, entrances, sunken living room

replaced roman tub with roll-in shower, added roll-up counter in kitchen

bought fiberglass portable rampp

2000 – purchased raised toilet seat

purchased hand controls for van

retired on disability

gave up piano, golf, tennis, took up watercolor

2001 – became coordinator for paint out group of San Diego Watercolor Society

2002 – became Membership Director of San Diego Watercolor Society

2004 – became International Exhibition Director of San Diego Watercolor Society

purchased van with ramp and transfer seat

2005 – purchased Pride lift chair

became Technology Director of San Diego Watercolor Society

began making hooks and dressing sticks

purchased grabbers (six)

Beth erroneously diagnosed with ALS by local Centre for Healthcare neurologist

(two months later) Beth correctly diagnosed with myotonic muscular dystrophy by MDA neurologist

acquired Permobil C500 (Medicare) for Mike

purchased Jazzy 1103 wheelchair for Beth

2006 – purchased Biobidet

became President San Diego Watercolor Society

purchased single story home in Rancho Bernardo (San Dego)

added 200 feet of outside sidewalks for wheelchair access to yard

added ADA bathroom (elevated toilet with bidet, low-lip shower, roll-under sink, room for wheelchair)

acquired hospital bed (Medicare)

2007 – began using shelf liners to lift legs

began purchasing wheelchair pants from USA Jeans

2008 – purchased ceiling lifts for bedroom and bathroom

2009 – purchased rechargeable wine opener

2010 – purchased iPad for drawing, games, voice recognition, etc.

purchased automatic can opener, jar opener

purchased computerized sewing machine (no foot pedal)

made belly bag, art apron, cooking apron, robe, work table, sliding pad

2011 – Lost ability to make horizontal transfers and began using overhead Waverly Glen lift.

Sewed pants that velcroed around me after being lowered onto them.

Hired part time caregiver for showers ( no longer safe to do on my own).

Lost ability to drive, began relying on the bus.

Hired second caregiver and greatly expanded their hours to daily as Beth also needed help.

2012 – Beth began hallucinating.

Moved both of us to assisted living and put home up for rent.

Beth died of respiratory failure due to myotonic muscular dystrophy.

Lost most strength in arms, began using mobile arm support.