My daughters and I have spent the last few days working on Beth’s obituary. This is a task that should not be put off until the death of a loved one. There is so much we would want to tell people about my wife, their mother. But there is also the reality. To begin with, people reading the newspaper and scanning the obituaries are generally not likely to want to read a long story about how much someone meant to you. What’s more, at $10 a line, indulging in excess sentiment could quickly become very expensive–money that should be better used. So when it came right down to it, we realized the important facts of her life trumped the depth of our loss and the breadth of our love. Here is the finished product as it will appear in Sunday’s paper.
Obituary for Elizabeth Shirk as it will appear Sunday, October 21, 2012.